Many gay men have been brutalized, bullied and tortured for only a perceived notion that they were eyeing a hetero. When I first started coming out in my late teens and early twenties my straight male acquaintances were very clear that they were cool with me being gay but RESPECT their boundaries. And in those tales gay men would regret ever having gone there. When I was a teenager growing up in the suburbs, straight men would tell tales of the gay men that tried stuff on them.
